Sunday, June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day!


To all you wonderful fathers out there, I commend you. Being a good father and provider is a very hard job.
I know because I watch my husband excel at that every single day. I watch how hard it is to balance the love and discipline. He does a great job at dividing his time between work, home, both children equally, me and his own time. I taught him how important it was to keep a part of himself to keep his sanity with his own time. That is very important to me. He works out almost daily and I think that helps him not to lose his identity, you know the thing that made me fall in love with him to begin with. He never complains about anything. I know sometimes I expect more than he can give, but he gives anyway. I have always supported him with my whole heart and I always will. I feel like I am so lucky and blessed that he is the love of my life and the father of my children.
My own father is the best father ever, I can say that because he is mine and I love him.
To all you fathers out there, married or not remember that those children are our next generation. They are the adults of our future and they deserve the best start. These babies/children/teens/young adults deserve the best advantages you can provide and facilitate. They need you. They need you to believe that they can do everything and anything. The love of strong parents can not be replaced.
To all you single moms out there that are doing the work of both parents I commend you. Keep up the good work and keep fighting that good fight for those children.
To all the same sex couples, male or female I commend you as well. Keep being there for those kids and never give up on them or each other.
Father's Day is a day to celebrate fathers and their contribution to the making and raising your babies. To the fathers who are there and stepping up to their responsibilities, you are so very awesome and I commend you and to you deadbeat absentee fathers
FUCK YOU!

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Monday, June 18, 2007

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!!




Yeah, I know I'm a little late, but c'mon I was away this weekend. Thanks NWJR for making me cry a little with your Father's Day post. My dear sweet husband, the father of my children and my soulmate grew up without his father. No, he did not leave the family. He died when my husband was but a mere 6 months old. From what we hear he was a kind and gentle man. He had lots of energy before he got sick. He died from colon cancer when he was just 26 years old. My poor husband grew up without a dad. I have to admit his mother took the job of mother and father very seriously, she never dated or remarried. She focussed on being the best parent ever.



I love my mom-in-law.



When my hubby and I got married my own father took my husband under his wing and loved him like he was his own flesh and blood. This was the first time in his life that he had a father and loved every minute of it. They did yard work together, he taught him how to clean a chainsaw, they really enoyed/enjoy each others company. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful husband and father. My father was the first love of my life. He has always been the beginning and end all of everything as far as I'm concerned. Now I can say that the man I married is just as wonderful as the man who brought me up. How can one person deserve so much greatness in one lifetime. I dunno and I don't care. BUT I am very thankful for what I have.



I love you Poppie!


I love you Sweet!

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