Friday, October 17, 2008

Tragedy...


Today my husband took me to lunch. We had a great time and laughed a lot like we usually do. He dropped me off at my job at around 1:30.
At approximately 1:40 a man on a motorcycle hit a car right in front of the parking lot at work and he died instantly. I went out to see what happened and the man already had a sheet over him and the police were sending the ambulance away. They were awaiting the coroner. He broadsided a car and totalled his bike as well as the car. I feel so sorry for the woman he hit and for his family. I really wish people who rode bikes also understood that there is nothing between them and the road. There is no reason to be travelling fast in the center of town, none whatsoever...
My husband used to race bikes in a controlled environment on a track surrounded with medical professionals. I almost lost him during one of those races. He was airlifted to the trauma center in Jacksonville, Fl. He still has side effects of that day that will stay with him for the rest of his life. But he is alive and wonderful and with me and the kids. I can't ask for more than that. He has not ridden on a bike or gone to a race since. Only because of the love and respect he has for me. When I saw the accident today I was flooded with emotion. I had flashbacks to the day I almost lost him. I thank God every day that my hubby is still in one piece and here to share my life with me. I am glad he left 10 minutes earlier than the accident. I am glad he didn't witness it. I am glad it wasn't him. I am so sorry for this man's family. This whole tragedy could have been avoided.
Please everyone take a minute to love your loved ones. They could be gone in the blink of an eye.


This is a picture taken at the scene...
This is the article...
From Savannah-Chatham Metro Police:
Today at around 1:40 PM, in the 7300 block of Hodgson Memorial drive, a man was killed when a car turned in front of him.
Traffic Investigators have determined that a 26 year old man was traveling north on Hodgson Memorial drive when a Ford Escort, traveling south, attempted to turn into the Woods apartments at 7364 Hodgson Memorial drive. The vehicle turned into the path of the motorcycle causing him to collide with the right side of the car.
The driver of the motorcycle suffered fatal injuries and was pronounced dead at the scene. The name of the man driving the motorcycle has not been released at this time and charges are pending.

9 Comments:

Blogger ~Just Me Miranda~ said...

It's really sad that it takes such a major tragedy for people to realize stuff.

8:46 AM  
Blogger Colin said...

Big Mama. The man killed was my younger brother. He was traveling 30mph at the time, and not speeding. If you saw what happened, I would sincerely appreciate a call. I am in from Washington D.C.

My name is Colin Rogero, and my number is 202-207-6763

2:35 AM  
Blogger Big Mama said...

Colin, I am so sorry for your loss. I didn not see what happened, I only saw the aftermath.
I wish I could offer you some comfort. From what I did see, there was no suffering, it was instant. I would like to know more about your brother, if you would care to share him with us.

11:07 AM  
Blogger Big Mama said...

Also Colin, please e-mail me bigmama0110 at hotmail.com thank you.

8:18 AM  
Blogger just a kat said...

So sorry for Colin's loss.

Big Mama, I am SO glad Big Dada stopped his riding. I am so sorry for your flashback (big hug).
GB also used to ride, but his MS diagnosis curtailed his ability to ride - if you cant feel the grips, you cant control the bike. Kinda makes sense, ehh?
I lost a step-brother (I didnt really know) to a motorcycle wreck and I have a HEALTHY respect for the two-wheeled drivers of our roads. I implore everyone else to do the same - that bumper sticker IS true: Look twice, save a life - Motorcycles are everywhere.

3:24 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

The man that was killed was my wifes cousin. He was one of the nicest people I've ever met and he will be greatly missed. I guess it's true that only the good die young.

1:51 PM  
Blogger Big Mama said...

I'm so sorry Nathan. I believe you're right. I am really sad that the news has not said anything. There has been no followup, nothing. The very least they can do is give him a tribute, something, anything.

7:53 AM  
Blogger Colin said...

Hello all. Having laid Sean to rest last weekend, I thought I would share this with all of you. There are two sites here, one is a memorial, and the other will be a continuously updated site with aspects of Sean's life others can learn from.

http://sean-rogero.personalizedmemorial.com

www.seanrogero.com

11:41 AM  
Blogger Big Mama said...

Thank you so much Colin. I'll be over there to see them both soon.

7:19 PM  

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